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Pithi [Haldi]
The Pithi ceremony, also referred to as Haldi in other parts of India, is an essential pre-wedding ritual performed a day or two before the wedding. The ceremony is usually held separately at the bride’s and groom’s homes, surrounded by close family members and friends. The ceremony begins with the preparation of the Pithi paste, a fragrant mixture made from turmeric, sandalwood powder, rose water, and sometimes gram flour. Each family may have its own variation of this mixture, adding elements like jasmine or orange zest to lend a unique fragrance. The turmeric, known for its antiseptic and healing properties, is believed to cleanse and purify the skin, giving the bride and groom a radiant glow for their wedding day. The event is held in an outdoor courtyard or a specially decorated area in the home, adorned with marigold flowers, yellow drapes, and traditional motifs. The entire space is infused with an air of celebration, as the colour yellow dominates the decor and the attire of the guests. The highlight of the ceremony is the application of the Pithi paste on the bride and groom. Family members and friends take turns applying the paste to the couple’s face, arms, hands, and feet. The application is done amidst laughter, music, and traditional Rajasthani folk songs, adding to the joyful ambience. One unique aspect of the Rajasthani Pithi ceremony is the use of silver or gold vessels to mix and apply the paste. While the ceremony is filled with fun and frolic, every part of the Pithi ceremony carries symbolic meaning.
Cultural Significance
The Pithi ceremony is not just about beautification; it carries deep cultural significance in Rajasthani weddings.
For the bride, the Pithi ceremony is often a cherished memory, as it involves the presence of her maternal relatives, especially her mama (maternal uncle), who plays a significant role in applying the paste. This emphasises the maternal side’s blessings, ensuring that the bride carries their love and protection as she steps into her marital life.
Another notable aspect is the communal bonding that the Pithi ceremony fosters. The ceremony is a joyful affair that involves family and friends in a lighthearted and personal manner, unlike some of the more formal wedding rituals. This makes it an intimate celebration of love, laughter, and togetherness.
Fashioning Tradition
The bride typically wears a yellow or orange Lehenga Choli or a Saree. The fabrics used are often cotton or silk, designed to be comfortable yet traditional. In some cases, brides may wear Bandhani sarees, a traditional Rajasthani tie-dye technique that adds a burst of colour and intricate patterns to their attire.
Since the Pithi paste is generously applied to the bride’s skin, the chosen outfit is one that she may not mind getting stained, yet it still reflects the grandeur of the occasion.
The groom’s attire is similarly understated but regal. He typically dons a Kurta Pyjama or a simple Sherwani, often in shades of yellow, white, or cream.
Jewellery & Accessories
While the Pithi ceremony is not as heavy on jewellery as the wedding day itself, certain ornaments are worn by both the bride and groom to add significance to the occasion.
The bride typically wears minimal jewellery during the Pithi ceremony. She may adorn herself with delicate gold or silver bangles. Additionally, some brides wear a simple maangtikka or Rakhdi. One common accessory is the Haathphool, a hand ornament that connects a bracelet to the rings on the fingers.
The groom wears minimal jewellery, like a Kada (a thick bangle made of silver or gold). In some families, the groom may wear a simple chain.
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