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Reception

The reception ceremony at Tamil weddings is an event that represents the joyful coming together of two families. In the custom, the evening reception follows the completion of all wedding rituals. It offers an opportunity for relatives, friends and those unable to attend the wedding to convey their well wishes and blessings to the wedded couple. The spotlight shines on the bride and groom now officially united as husband and wife as they make their debut together at this gathering. Upon their arrival at the venue, cheers and excitement welcome the couple warmly. The setting is often adorned with flowers twinkling lights, and elegant drapes to create a welcoming ambiance. Jasmine, roses and marigolds are favoured decorations for their representation of purity and good fortune. The entrance is typically embellished with banana and mango leaves, symbolising prosperity and joy. Brass oil lamps known as kuthu vilakku are placed around the event adding a cozy traditional feel. In modern times, the traditional Tamil reception ceremony has embraced Western customs. In contemporary receptions, you might find elements like a grand entrance featuring a red carpet, a beautifully adorned stage where the couple sits and, of course, a wedding cake. Live music or DJ performances have become quite common, setting an atmosphere for the night. The bride and groom often share their dance, inspired by Western wedding customs adding a romantic touch to the occasion. Guests at the reception are treated to a feast, which holds great significance in Tamil wedding traditions. The menu usually consists of an array of vegetarian dishes, traditional South Indian delicacies, and sometimes a mix of North Indian or international cuisines. The highlight of the meal is typically the Sadhya, an elaborate vegetarian spread served on banana leaves showcasing Tamil Nadu's culinary heritage. Desserts like payasam, a rice pudding, complete the meal. During the reception, guests shower the newlyweds with gifts and heartfelt blessings. Photographers and videographers capture every moment to preserve memories of this day. Laughter fills the air along with music and dancing as everyone comes together in celebration of this union.

Cultural Significance

The reception ceremony plays a role in Tamil weddings symbolising the union of the newlyweds and allowing both families to present them as a married couple to their community. This event strengthens the ties and connections that are integral to Tamil culture, highlighting the shared happiness and blessings of marriage.

The intricate decorations and traditional elements such as banana leaves, mango leaves and brass oil lamps represent prosperity, fertility and warding off negativity. 

These embellishments hold symbolic significance rooted in Tamil customs beyond their visual appeal. The inclusion of flowers like jasmine, marigold and roses symbolises purity, auspiciousness and the blossoming of a bond.

The feast served at the reception carries importance as well. Sharing a meal signifies unity and belonging within Tamil traditions. The Sadhya meal, featuring an assortment of dishes on banana leaves, showcases the diverse culinary heritage and the value of hospitality. It serves as a gesture of gratitude and joy from the families towards their guests, making them feel respected and cherished.

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Fashioning Tradition

In Tamil weddings, brides often choose to adorn themselves in silk sarees, particularly Kanchipuram silk sarees, which are renowned for their vibrant hues, intricate designs, and opulent textures. Kanjivaram sarees, known for their craftsmanship using mulberry silk and intricate zari work embellished with gold and silver threads, often showcase motifs inspired by temple art, nature and ancient legends such as the Ramayana and Mahabharata on their pallus.

Brides exhibit draping styles when wearing these sarees. Some opt for the Madisar style drape, while others prefer a contemporary look with an open pallu draped elegantly over the shoulder. The choice of colours is significant as hues like red, gold, pink, green and blue symbolise luck, prosperity and happiness. To complement the saree ensemble, brides pair them with intricately designed blouses.

In addition to sarees, modern Tamil brides may don lehengas or gowns in addition to sarees during their reception ceremonies. Lehengas have gained popularity due to their versatility. Comprising a skirt paired with a blouse and adorned with a dupatta. These outfits often feature embroidery work with zari accents and beadwork that highlight the craftsmanship of South Indian artisans. The assortment of styles such, as A line mermaid shapes offer brides a wide array of choices.

Tamil wedding receptions have witnessed the emergence of gowns as Indo Western gown ensembles. These elegant dresses blend the charm of evening wear with designs creating a unique and stylish look. They feature embroidery, lacework and sequin details, for brides who want to add a touch of modern flair to their cultural celebrations. From form fitting corset styles to flowing designs, each gown offers its special beauty.

When it comes to the grooms attire there's a mix of contemporary influences. Of the dhoti and angavastram outfits modern grooms often opt for trendy choices like pairing a kurta with a Nehru jacket or donning a sherwani or even a suit or tuxedo. The combination of kurta and Nehru jacket is quite popular for its classy appeal. The Nehru jacket features a mandarin collar that adds a touch of elegance to the grooms look.

For grooms looking for a timeless option the sherwani is a choice—a dignified long coat buttoned up to the neck that can be embellished with patterns and paired with churidar pants for an elegant and majestic appearance. Alternatively grooms can go for a tailored suit or tuxedo in hues, like black, navy or grey for a Western inspired outfit. These trendy outfits have a feel. Can be accessorized with items, like ties bow ties, pocket squares and smart dress shoes.

Accessories play a role in finalizing the grooms ensemble for the reception. Traditional choices such as juttis or mojris, with embroidery perfectly complement sherwanis or kurtas. Alternatively sleek leather shoes or formal loafers go well with suits or tuxedos. A stylish wristwatch adds a touch of elegance while a gold chain or bracelet enhances the appeal. For an added touch of sophistication the groom might consider wearing a turban adorned with jewels or feathers to signify his status and enhance his attire.

Jewellery & Accessories

Temple jewellery, known for its designs inspired by temple architecture and gods, is a popular choice among brides. These exquisite pieces are typically crafted from gold and adorned with precious and semi-precious gems, adding an elegant touch to the bride's attire.

Among the sought after pieces is the classic Kasu Malai necklace embellished with coins bearing symbols often depicting Goddess Lakshmi. A traditional favorite of Tamil brides is the Kaluthiru, a necklace made of black beads strung together with a central locket symbolising protection from the husband. To adorn her ears the bride wears Mattal Jimikki, a featuring ear chains or extensions. The Mookku Va?aiyam nose ring embellished with gems or pearls adds a subtle charm to her overall look. She also adorns her wrists with a mix of gold bangles and colorful glass bangles.

Completing her jewellery ensemble are the Metti silver toe ring symbolising status and the Thali or Mangala naan neck ornament given by the groom as a symbol of their eternal bond, in marriage.

For the reception the bride may opt for more contemporary jewellery pieces to complement her attire. Diamonds, silver, and jewellery adorned with gemstones are quite popular among brides today, bringing a flair to their traditional attire. Brides nowadays often lean towards the sophistication of diamond-encrusted necklaces, ranging from charms to striking statement pieces. These necklaces showcase designs and top-notch diamonds that sparkle beautifully in the light.

Chandelier earrings are also a hit with brides. These elegant earrings, typically featuring diamonds, gemstones or a mix of both elegantly dangle from the earlobes adding a touch of glamour and class. Available in styles. Be it classic or modern, these earrings ensure that every bride can find the perfect pair to complement her style and outfit.

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