For many families, the engagement serves as a moment to formalise the relationship and establish a public commitment before the community. Traditionally, this ceremony was not only for the couple but also for their families to announce the match to their wider social circle. In the past, engagements were arranged by the elders of the family, and the engagement marked the official consent of both families to the union.

Spiritually, the engagement ceremony in Punjab / Delhi / Chandigarh weddings is seen as a time to invoke divine blessings for the couple's future. The rituals performed during the engagement are meant to ensure that the couple embarks on their new journey with positivity, protection, and prosperity. Each step, from the Tilak to the exchange of rings, is symbolic of a deeper connection between the couple and their families.

In contemporary times, while many engagement ceremonies are infused with modern touches – like destination venues or lavish themes – the essence of the event remains rooted in tradition. 

While the bridal lehenga is typically reserved for the wedding day, many brides opt for a stunning Lehenga Choli or a Saree for their engagement. Rich fabrics like silk, velvet, and satin are often chosen, and adorned with intricate embroidery, zari work, and embellishments. 

In recent times, brides are experimenting with lighter shades like pastels – pinks, lavenders, and mint greens – adding a modern touch to their traditional look. Designers often incorporate contemporary cuts and styles with off-shoulder blouses or minimalist designs, creating a perfect fusion of tradition and trend. Flowing anarkalis, floor-length gowns with Indian-inspired embroidery, are also popular choices for brides who want a balance between Western and Indian aesthetics.

Grooms, too, put their best foot forward in terms of style. Traditional outfits like the Sherwani or Achkan are common choices for engagement ceremonies, paired with a dupatta or stole draped elegantly over the shoulder. The fabrics often include brocade, silk, or jacquard, giving the attire a regal and formal appearance. Embellished with gold or silver embroidery, grooms often coordinate their outfits with the bride's colour palette, complementing her look.

While deep colours like navy blue, royal green, and maroon are perennial favourites, many grooms now also opt for neutral tones like beige, ivory, or pastel shades to add a softer, more romantic flair to their attire. Paired with traditional Mojris (embroidered shoes), the groom’s outfit is designed to exude elegance and sophistication.