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Mehendi

Mehendi

Bright, colourful, and simply fun — the Mehendi ceremony can be a simple ritual or an exuberant affair. Traditionally, Mehendi is hosted at the bride’s home for the bride a few days before the wedding for her closest friends and family members. In classic Kannada traditions, Madarengee or Mehendi is an intimate custom involving a small dot of mehendi on the bride's palms and fingertips. With the influx of North Indian customs and Bollywood grandeur, Mehendi has transformed into a grand celebration. The bride’s family may use a wedding venue, where guests indulge in a night of festivities complete with delicious food, lively music, and dancing. The focal activity of the Mehendi ceremony is applying henna to the bride’s hands and feet. Modern brides often choose to hire a professional henna artist to visit their home prior to the party. The intricate designs can take anywhere from two to six hours to complete, depending on the complexity desired by the bride. The family may arrange for multiple henna artists to apply mehendi to the female wedding guests. A similar Mehendi ceremony can be held at the groom’s home as well for the women in his family. Symbolically, a small dot of mehendi is applied to the groom's palm. Nowadays, weddings have social media hashtags, which the groom and men in the family can write on their hands in henna. The ambience of the Mehendi ceremony is vibrant and energetic, with colourful decorations like bangles, umbrellas, pillows, and fabrics decorating the venue. Guests are often seated on the ground, elderly women in the family sing folk songs, and younger guests are encouraged to dance. Modern Mehendi parties feature DJs and curated playlists to keep the energy high. Some couples choose to combine the Mehendi party with the Sangeet, another pre-wedding event filled with choreographed dancing – creating the perfect celebration before the wedding ceremony.

Cultural Significance

The Mehendi ceremony is a big day for the bride as she is the centre of attention. Traditionally, it was held the day before the wedding so that she gets the chance to unwind and relax with her family and friends. It allows her to slow down and enjoy herself before taking on all the responsibilities of a married woman. Applying mehendi itself has a lot of cultural significance. Apart from its aesthetic look, the designs have deeper meaning. The motifs used stand for happiness, fertility, and good fortune. 

Mehendi is a greenish-brown paste made from the henna plant, and has been used for centuries in the Indian subcontinent, Africa, and the Middle East. In Hindu tradition, mehendi is a vital part of the Solah Shringar, or sixteen adornments associated with luck, joy, and beauty that a bride must have. Apart from its cultural and aesthetic purposes, mehendi is known to have cooling properties. So, applying it to the bride’s hands and feet is believed to soothe her nerves and reduce stress levels.

Over time, mehendi designs have grown in style and complexity. Brides hire professional mehendi artists who are reputed for their skill, technique, and aesthetics. Traditional Hindi Vedic mehendi designs feature fine lines and intricate patterns, while Indo-Arabic and Arabic designs are more geometric. The designs carry several meanings too. Popular motifs of lotus flowers and peacocks stand for inner strength and empowerment. Geometric and floral patterns symbolise beauty, harmony, and growth. Artists may also incorporate symbols of love, fertility, representations of Hindu deities, or even illustrations of the couple. 

The colour of the mehendi also carries some significance. In Hindu astrology, the maroonish-red colour of mehndi designs has the energy of Mars, the planet of desire, determination, and marital success. This goes along with the legend that the darker the colour of the bride’s mehendi, the more her partner loves her.

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Fashioning Tradition

Since the Mehendi ceremony is normally held during the day and can go on for hours, the bride wears something comfortable and lightweight. A silk, net, georgette, or chiffon outfit is perfect for an airy but stylish look. She usually goes for something colourful in red, yellow, orange, or green. Red stands for love and passion, green signifies new beginnings, and yellow exudes joy and positivity. Her outfits can also feature colourful embroidery such as gotta patti, stonework, or zari. 

A traditional Mehendi outfit in a Karnataka wedding is a silk saree; however, modern Kannada brides have many options to choose from. A bright lehenga set with a sleeveless blouse is a popular choice so that the mehendi can be easily applied to her hands and feet.

She may also go for an Indo-Western look, such as a dhoti set, pre-draped saree, or Indowestern gown. Most grooms wear a stylish kurta, elevated with an embroidered Nehru Jacket or Bundi for the Mehendi ceremony. His outfit is often picked to complement the bride's attire, featuring vibrant colours and traditional embellishments. 

Guests attending a Mehendi party can wear semi-ethnic or ethnic attire. They are encouraged to embrace bright colours to enhance the festive ambience. Women have a wide range of options, including sarees, anarkali sets, ethnic dresses, or lehengas, while men can opt for suits, kurtas, or sherwanis.

Jewellery & Accessories

In Karnataka Mehendi ceremonies, brides can wear traditional gold jewellery or more contemporary options with kundan, silver, or florals. Since her hands and feet will have Mehendi, the bride normally opts for necklaces, armbands, earrings, and hair accessories to complete her look. A statement necklace or choker paired with chandelier earrings would stand out in a Mehendi ensemble. A maang tikka or matha patti can also add a touch of traditional glamour to the overall look. 

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