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Roka Ceremony

Roka Ceremony

The Roka ceremony marks the beginning of the pre-wedding ceremonies, where the bride and groom exchange rings as a symbol of their commitment. It serves as a declaration of their relationship, showing that they have committed to each other. This event also serves as an intimate meeting between the families. Earlier, it was a simple gathering for families to meet and share sweets; however, today, Roka has evolved into a grand affair. Some choose to combine the Roka and engagement ceremonies, while others prefer to keep them separate on days. Typically held three to one month before the wedding, the ceremony is hosted at the bride’s residence. The groom’s family is warmly welcomed at the beginning of the event and presented with gifts and sweets. In return, they offer presents such as clothing, jewellery, fruits and dried fruits for the bride and her family. The Roka ceremony includes a ritual where a mixture of thread (roli) and rice is applied to the foreheads of the bride and groom. In the Tilak ceremony, a vermilion paste or tilak is put on the foreheads of both the bride and groom to welcome guests and signify the commencement of festivities. The groom’s family presents gifts, including dried fruits, a basket filled with an assortment of fruits, money, clothing, and sweets to the bride’s family. The mother of the groom gives the bride a red dupatta while bestowing her with jewellery and money. The bride’s family also presents gifts, money, and sweets to the groom. Following this, all the elders in attendance offer their blessings to both the girl and the boy with their 'aashirvaad.' The couple then exchange rings, marking the announcement of their wedding! The celebration continues with guests dancing to folk tunes, socialising, and savoring local delicacies like Chana Madra, Dham and Babru.

Cultural Significance

The Roka ceremony marks the beginning of a series of events leading up to the wedding. It serves as a time for families to come together, strengthen their bond, and kick off the Himachal's wedding festivities. The ceremony ends with blessings from elders for the couple and a lavish meal. 

The customs observed during the Roka ceremony include applying tilak and exchanging gifts, honouring age-old traditions, and promoting cultural values.

Applying tilak symbolises respect and acceptance as the groom becomes a part of the bride’s family. Similarly, the act of exchanging gifts represents the cooperation that families aspire to achieve through marriage.

Furthermore, the Roka ceremony serves as a tribute to Himachal Pradesh’s cultural legacy. The traditional music, dance performances, and local cuisine featured during the event celebrate the region’s culture.

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Fashioning Tradition

For her Roka, the bride wears a saree crafted from materials like silk, chiffon or georgette. The saree is elegantly draped around the body with the pallu (the end of the saree) gracefully placed over one shoulder. Sarees from Himachal Pradesh are distinguished by their handwoven designs, vivid hues, and threadwork. Notable styles include the Chamba embroidery, known for its Pahari motifs as well as the Kullu shawl saree that incorporates traditional geometric patterns. Kullu shawls are crafted using wool, sometimes blended with angora or pashmina to create a luxurious feel,making it perfect for staying stylish in the cold weather. If the bride wants a more understated look, she may opt for a salwar kameez with a dupatta. The dupatta often has an intricately embroidered border, sequins, or threaded tassels.

The kurta pyjama is a timeless attire choice for grooms. The kurta, a tunic typically crafted from silk, cotton or linen may have light embroidery or subtle patterns. It is paired with pyjamas (trousers) tailored from coordinating fabric that can be loose or churidar style (snug at the ankles), blending suave style and comfort. 

For a formal appearance, grooms can wear a sherwani, an elegant coat-like garment worn atop a kurta. Sherwanis are often made from fabrics like silk or brocade and adorned with lavish zari work, sequins, or bead embellishments. Paired with churidar trousers and draped with a dupatta or stole over one shoulder, this ensemble exudes a regal air. Grooms also often wear a turban known as the "pahari topi" as part of their attire. The turban represents honour and respect in local tradition. These turbans are crafted from colourful fabrics with geometric designs and embroidery work.

Jewellery & Accessories

The jewellery adorned by brides from Himachal Paradesh are unique from others. They wear a Chanderhar necklace, which is a layered chain necklace commonly crafted from gold or silver beads. It may feature a pendant studded with precious and semi-precious stones. She may pair this with gold or silver jhumkas or chandbali earrings. For an understated look, gold kundan studs or hoop earrings are also popular.

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