Reception

At a Goan wedding, the reception marks the end of the festivities, bringing together loved ones to celebrate the newlyweds. Whether hosted indoors, outdoors or at the family’s home, the reception is known for its fun atmosphere, beautiful decorations, and meaningful customs. Upon arrival, guests are warmly greeted by the hosts and wedding party members, who lead them into the decorated venue. The couple greets and thanks each guest individually. This tradition highlights the importance of family and community in Goan culture. The reception begins with cutting the wedding cake. The cake is usually a tiered creation decorated with white frosting and intricate designs that serve as a centrepiece of the celebration. The bride and groom cut into it together, symbolising their journey ahead as partners supporting each other. Following this cake-cutting ritual, speeches and toasts are given in honour of the married couple. During a Goan Catholic wedding, the speeches shared by the best man, maid of honour, parents, and close friends are always filled with stories and warm wishes, adding a personal touch to the celebration. These speeches usually include a mix of humour, sentimental moments, and words of wisdom that provide insights into the couple's journey and their loved ones' hopes for their future. Music and dancing play an important role in Goan wedding festivities. The bride and groom traditionally take the lead on the dance floor with a waltz or sometimes with music that reflects their style. Following this moment, there are arranged dances where the couple dances with their parents and other guests, showcasing the family bonds valued in Goan culture. Throughout the evening, guests enjoy a feast featuring a variety of dishes that highlight Goa's culinary heritage. From seafood to meat to options, along with delicacies and desserts, there's something for everyone to savour. This meal embodies Goan hospitality by offering flavours that cater to tastes while bringing people together in happiness. A playful tradition known as charivari is often part of reception festivities in Goan Catholic weddings, where guests engage in teasing. It's not uncommon for the bride’s family to playfully attempt to steal the groom's shoes during this fun-filled custom. After that, they engage in a game called "joota chupai," which is a common practice in Indian culture. These activities infuse joy and playfulness into the celebration, creating memories for years to come. The reception is filled with dancing, laughter and joy as the night progresses. Typically, the bride and groom, the evening guests, are among the first to bid farewell as the formal events end. It's customary for guests to offer blessings as they depart. Some may even throw rice or flower petals—a gesture rooted in customs symbolising fertility and good fortune.

Jewellery & Accessories

Jewellery plays a role in enhancing the bride’s look. The necklace, in particular, is carefully chosen to complement her dress. Necklaces range from pearls to elaborate designs featuring diamonds and other precious gemstones. When picking a necklace, brides usually choose one that complements the neckline of their dress, adding a touch of sophistication and charm.

Earrings are also part of the accessories, varying from simple studs to intricate chandelier earrings, depending on the bride’s style and gown design. These earrings often showcase diamonds, pearls, or other gemstones that enhance the bride’s look. They are paired with matching bracelets and the wedding ring!

Besides earrings, brides often opt for tiaras, hairpieces that add a touch to their ensembles. Tiaras are typically made of gold or silver and adorned with crystals or pearls that coordinate with the rest of the jewellery. Hair accessories like combs, pins, or floral pieces offer options for creating hairstyles for events. Selecting shoes for the bride is also crucial; they need to balance style and comfort. These shoes are typically embellished with crystals or pearls.

Bridal jewellery often includes pieces that reflect Goan culture. For instance, the Cordao necklace is reminiscent of the Hindu Mangalsutra. It features two beaded chains interspersed with gold coins and usually sports a pendant resembling Jesus or a cross, holding importance.