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Tel Diya

Tel Diya

The Tel Diya ceremony is an Assamese pre-wedding ritual that is usually hosted by the bride’s family at their home or a separate venue. This event takes place a few days before the wedding and is attended by family and their closest relatives. It happens after the Juran Diya ceremony, during which the groom’s mother and her relatives visit the bride. They give her gifts of Pan and Tamul, betel leaves and nuts, and a Gamusa, a white traditional Assamese with red thread embroidery. In the Tel Diya custom, the groom’s mother places a ring and Tamul, or betel nut, on the bride’s forehead. She then pours oil (tel) thrice and applies sindoor on her hair parting. In other Hindu traditions, the groom applies Sindoor on the bride’s forehead. In Assam, it is customary for the groom’s mother to perform the ritual instead. By doing so, she blesses the bride and accepts her into the family. The sindoor also represents the bride’s new role as a wife and holds a lot of meaning for her. Through the Tel Diya ceremony, the guests sing folk songs and chat prayers while offering their good wishes to the couple.

Cultural Significance

The Tel Diya ceremony is rooted in Assamese wedding tradition and has been followed for generations. It marks the start of the bride’s journey to becoming a wife and being accepted into her husband-to-be’s family. The groom’s mother plays an integral role in this tradition, which shows how important family is to the Assamese people. This tradition helps build feelings of goodwill, respect, and love between the families.  

The sindoor or vermillion powder used in Tel Diya also has much significance to the Assamese bride. In Hindu culture, sindoor is a representation of a woman’s marital status. Women wear it to protect themselves from negative energy and to show devotion to their husbands. Also standing for fertility and fidelity, it is one of the Solah Shringar or sixteen ornaments of a bride as put down in the Vedic scriptures. 

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Fashioning Tradition

During the Tel Diya ceremony, the bride typically wears a traditional Mekhela Chador or a silk saree. Mekhela Chador is an Assamese ensemble made of a pleated skirt and a draped upper garment. Typically made from Muga silk, these pieces are exquisitely embroidered with gold and silver zari with a large brocade border.

Besides this, the bride can also wear a silk saree made from Muga, Pat, or Eri silk. These are made locally in Assam and are known for their opulent feel and graceful designs. The motifs in these sarees are often inspired from Assamese floral and fauna, adding more meaning to an already beautiful ensemble.

Jewellery & Accessories

To complement her look, the Assamese bride wears beautiful gold jewellery, including necklaces, earrings, bangles, and rings. Traditional pieces include Jon Biri, a heavy gold chain with a large moon-shaped pendant encrusted with rubies, emeralds, or pearls. She can also wear a Dholbri necklace, a unique ornament with silk beaded threads and a drum-shaped kundan pendant.

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