Different communities in Assam follow The Khuba Khubi ritual, making it a culturally significant custom across the state. It showcases the emphasis Assamese culture places on tradition and family. It is customary for this rite to take place at the bride’s family home to show respect for her roots. Returning to her parent’s home after the wedding symbolises staying in touch with her maternal family after getting married. 

A big part of the Khuba Khubi ritual is the story of Khuba and Khubani. It shows how moral teachings are central to Assamese folklore and Hindu mythology at large.

Stories play a pivotal role in passing down traditions, values, and learnings from one generation to the next. Through the story, the priest helps the couple understand that they must strive for a supportive and happy marriage. 

This oral tradition of storytelling can be traced back centuries. Before the invention of script and writing, a lot of knowledge was shared through oral folktales and legends. These stories not only entertain people but also impart life lessons and preserve cultural heritage. By using storytelling in Assamese weddings, Assamese communities ensure this nugget of wisdom is given to every new couple.

For the Khuba Khubi ceremony, the bride wears an elegant Assamese-style silk saree. This traditional look is timeless and full of charm. Her saree is often made from one of Assam’s famous silk textiles, such as Muga, Pat, or Eri silk. Muga silk is a coveted fabric known for its lustrous colours and fine embroidery. Made in vibrant colours, Pat silk sarees are soft, feminine, and elegant looks. Eri silk, also known as Ahimsa silk, is one of the only eco-friendly silks, making it perfect for the eco-conscious bride. 

True to her heritage, the bride will wear a saree with traditional motifs inspired by Assamese flora, fauna, and folklore. She can drape the saree over a modest blouse, creating a sophisticated and demure look. 

Besides a saree, the bride can also wear other ethnic ensembles such as an Anarkali set or a Sharara set. With its long, flowing silhouette, the Anarkali is the epitome of grace.

The Sharara set is a more contemporary option, offering a chic and youthful alternative that is still very much traditional. 

The groom wears a traditional kurta ensemble, made in silk or cotton. He opts for a neutral shade such as white, beige, or blue, but the kurta can feature light gold embroidery to add a bit of wedding glam. Most Assamese men pair their kurta with a dhoti, but churidar pants or trousers also work. The groom can also accessorise with a traditional Cheleng shawl draped around his neck. 

The modern groom can also wear a Nehru Jacket or Bundi over his kurta set. Or go for an Indo-Western outfit to combine the traditional with the contemporary.