The Aathmangla ceremony is a beautiful function where the two families come together with the community to celebrate the newlyweds. Historically, the Aathmangla ceremony was a way to ease the separation between the bride and her family, especially in cases where the groom lived far away. In earlier times, a girl getting married off often meant she wouldn’t see her family for a long time. So, the Aathmangla ceremony was an opportunity for the bride to reconnect with her parents after the Assamese wedding festivities. Today, while the dynamics of marriage have evolved, the Aathmangla ceremony is still a cherished tradition. 

During the Aathmangla ceremony, the newlywed couple receives various gifts from their relatives. Each of these gifts carries some meaning to marriage, family, and heritage. A popular Assamese wedding gift is the Gamusa, a traditional cotton or silk cloth that is considered a symbol of Assamese identity and pride. It is often decorated with rhino, elephant, lotus, and fish motifs, which stand for different values such as strength, purity, and prosperity. 

The word "Gamusa" is derived from "Ga", meaning body, and "Musa", meaning wipe, since it is traditionally a towel to wipe the body. In practice, it is a symbol of respect, often exchanged during ceremonies as a mark of goodwill. In Aathmangla, the Gamusa is given as a token of mutual acceptance.

Another common gift is a Xorai, a traditional Assamese offering tray made from bell metal. It has a distinctive dome-like shape with a narrow base sitting on a stand and is used in many Assamese rituals. It is a symbol of Assamese hospitality, prosperity, and good fortune. In important ceremonies, it is used to present offerings such as betel nuts, betel leaves, sweets, and fruits. The act of offering these items in a Xorai is considered a gesture of respect and honour. 

The couple may also get gifts of gold jewellery, since it’s considered lucky, as well as practical gifts of household items, such as utensils and kitchenware.

For the Aathmangla ceremony, the bride chooses a beautiful Assamese-style silk saree, made from Muga, Pat, or Eri silk. Muga silk is well-known for its shiny colors and delicate embroidery. Pat silk sarees come in soft, feminine colors and have an elegant feel. Eri silk, also called Ahimsa silk, is eco-friendly, making it a great choice for the environmentally-conscious bride. 

A classic silk saree look is always a timeless choice, especially when featuring traditional designs inspired by Assamese plants, animals, and stories. She can drape the saree over a modest blouse, creating a refined and sophisticated look.

Apart from a saree, the bride can wear other ethnic outfits like an Anarkali set or Sharara set.

An Anarkali features a long, flowing silhouette that is simply graceful. A Sharara set offers a modern twist while still keeping with the traditional aesthetic.

The groom dresses in a traditional kurta ensemble, usually made of silk or cotton. He might choose neutral colours like white, beige, or blue, with light gold embroidery to add some wedding flair. Many Assamese men pair their kurtas with a dhoti, but churidar pants or trousers are also popular options. The groom can complete his look with a traditional Cheleng shawl draped around his neck.

For a more contemporary touch, the groom can opt for a Nehru Jacket or Bundi over his kurta set. He could also go for an Indo-Western outfit, blending traditional and modern styles seamlessly.